Freshman


29
Jul 10

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

It’s the most wonderful time of year. The school supply displays are up in major retailers. Commercials are touting the must have shoes for back to school. Every week a Bed, Bath and Beyond catalog appears in my mailbox to highlight some new thing that college students need for their dorm rooms. Beneath all of the commercialization, the anticipation for the upcoming school year is palpable. It’s a time of new beginnings and opportunity on the horizon.

I took a much needed break on a Saturday afternoon in early July to see Toy Story 3. Armed with a wad of tissues and the warnings of those who had gone before me, I thought I was prepared to say goodbye to Woody, Buzz, Andy, and the rest of the gang. As I watched Andy go through the process of preparing to leave for college and make decisions about what he would take with him and what he would leave behind, I realized how wrongly many of us are doing our jobs this time of year.

What’s on your desk right now? Look around. Is it the welcome week schedule? The latest round of room assignments? Updates to degree requirements for advisees? A revised syllabus for the first year experience course you teach?

We are enthused about the opportunities that we provide to incoming students, and rightfully so. As a collective field, we have a lot to offer our students. We have classes, programs, events, activities, organizations — all of them our toys. New ones! Shiny ones! Ones that our new friends have never seen before!

But in our excitement, we sometimes forget about the toys that our students have relegated to bags in their attics and basements, the things they leave behind and give up to be with us on our campuses. We lose sight of the people they are because we’re so focused on the people they can be become.  They are away from family and friends; they made choices about schools and may have cold feet. Over the next weeks as students begin to arrive on our campuses, remember for a minute what you felt stepping onto campus for the first time. Remember your friends who weren’t with you and the newness of everything around you.  Think about what you left behind and the trepidation you felt about replacing those things too quickly.

Meet yourself where you were at to better equip yourself to meet new students where they are.


5
Oct 09

If the room is a-rockin’ …

Working in Residence Life I have seen this scenario play out numerous times. The roommate A comes in and sees roommate B doing the nasty or Roommate B is sleeping while Roommate A is getting her kicks. It happens. However, now Tufts has placed a policy ban of sex while your roommate is in the room. Is this going too far?

The Tufts University policy is as follows:

Host Responsibilities:

Any resident student who will be hosting an overnight guest must adhere to the following expectations:

  • You must obtain permission from your roommate(s) before your guest arrives to campus.
  • If you live in a staffed residence hall you must obtain an Overnight Guest Registration Form from your Resident Assistant…
  • You may not allow your guest (whether Tufts affiliated or not) to occupy your room without your presence or give your room key or building fob to your guest(s) under any circumstances.
  • You are responsible for the behavior of your guests at all times and are liable for any damages incurred to your room or the residence hall as a result of your guest's behavior/actions.
  • You may not engage in sexual activity while your roommate is present in the room. Any sexual activity within your assigned room should not ever deprive your roommate(s) of privacy, study, or sleep time.

 

Many times it is hard for roommates to have these and other tough conversations; they are coming from home with their own room and now they have to share a space with someone. In Residence Life, we want to be able to give the residents skills that will help them in the future. I know when many of my residents had to have these conversations, it was probably the hardest thing to do; but it gave them conflict management and other skills that have helped them out in the future.


(Wayne State)

And thinking like a typical resident, what would be considered as "sexual activity?" Making out? Hugging? In today's society, that is ambiguous; it's not necessarily the actions, but the motivation behind them (in my opinion). If you are going to tell them not to do it, then I believe then you should define what that is for them. I can see how this could lead into some potential problems. And if a resident was to engage in this type of an activity and the roommate was present, what would happen? Would they get kicked out of the room? It's their room too and they have a right to use it as they see fit. With that said I like MSU's residence hall policy; it splits it between primary and secondary rights.

Michigan State's residence hall policy is that as a resident your primary rights are to read and study without interference, sleep and have access to belongings, and the right file grievance in your room. Any secondary rights, like having guests or having sex, cannot override those primary rights. Yeah there are some grey areas, but that allows the roommates to set the tone in their room for themselves, not the college or university. You could also do things like Wayne State's Roommate Agreement, where there is a list of questions and answers that help facilitate those conversations.


(My roommate and I at MSU in 2003)

For more articles related to Tufts' Policy, click here!



1
Sep 09

Welcome Week Casserole

A few weeks ago I was sitting at my computer working through some details for a Welcome Week program when I started toggling back and forth between my excel spreadsheet and my Twitter feed. I found the usual – some website links skilled in the art of enabling procrastination, breaking news from five different sources (all with slightly different details, of course), and one-sided shout outs to people I will never follow.

With our Welcome Week right around the corner I figured I would give it a shot and a “Find People” search for “Welcome Week” resulted in over two-dozen profiles. I perused the list to find a handful of very active profiles, some schools where I had friends working and a good number of schools you could tell were just testing the waters on this “Twitter thing.” By the time I decided I needed some dinner, I had added about a dozen schools to the list of people that I follow. These schools; from all over the United States and Canada, representing public and private institutions, large and small student bodies, and variations in orientation program designs have been an absolute joy to follow.

It wasn’t until the middle of this most recent Welcome Week on my campus that I noticed a trend. Each of those 12 schools, plus the three that I have worked at, had the same essential elements that make up the core of their programming schedule.  I realized that it’s a lot like a potluck dinner with friends. You were assigned to bring dessert and spend all afternoon whipping up an apple pie from your secret family recipe. You arrive at the potluck ready to show off your culinary aptitude when you realize there are two other apple pies already on the table. Even though they all contain the same essential ingredients, you find through tasting a sample of each that the three pies offer a distinct and unique experience for your palette.

Likewise, the Welcome Week experience is unique to each campus community. Inspired by my new friends that I have been following on Twitter for the past two weeks and the dutiful encouragement by my mother to learn to cook for myself, I would like to share with you my recipe for Welcome Week Casserole:

Start with your main ingredients; Move-In Day, some academic programming, and a healthy helping of student volunteers.

These ingredients create the base of your program. A semi-captive audience now resides on-campus that has survived (arguably) the first rite of passage on campus – carrying boxes to the (insert number that is actually one higher than the number of floors in your tallest residence hall) floor, maneuvering around the predictably broken elevator, and managing to avoid a parking ticket.

The academic programs are usually easy to identify… they contain the word “Academic” in the title and are usually frontloaded into the first full day of Welcome Week.

The student volunteers are often just as easy to identify — they are dressed alike and may be carrying large brightly colored objects (to be used in icebreakers). These students are often ridiculed by their peers on campus for being “too energetic,” “too happy,” or just downright “annoying.” Even though their motivation is sometimes in question (early move-in, the influence, recruiting for student organizations, building a social network, etc), I respect them more than almost anyone that works in Student Affairs. They are the front line of our programs, often being asked to fulfill expectations far beyond what would be imaginable for 18-21 year olds in a volunteer position.

Next, add one serving of a formal welcome program.

This program is usually designed as a way for administration and faculty to welcome new students to their community. Placed near the beginning of the week and with the pomp and circumstance associated with a commencement ceremony, these students officially become members of the academy. More than anything, this is a wonderful opportunity to involve campus partners in the orientation experience. (I think that campus spam blockers have been upgraded to weed out any emails with the words “invite,” “welcome week,” and “late night” in them.)

Now, gently fold in some diversity programming.

Probably the most unique of all Welcome Week components, I can think of nothing else more responsive to the make-up of the student body, campus and local social values, political influences and comfort level of orientation staff/committee members. It is worthy of graduate school case studies discussing the balance between challenge and support. 

For some spice, a pinch of University Athletics will do.

If you have a marching/pep band, it is a must. Be careful though, there is a high probability that it will not go as you planned with the Athletic Director or Athletics Event Coordinator. Coaches are paid the big bucks to make game time decisions. In front of the new students, filled with a lot of energy, and in an effort to increase attendance and support for all of the athletic teams on the roster – there are plenty of opportunities for “game time decisions.”  

Finally, the secret ingredient…

I can’t tell you what that is because it’s a secret! But, you know what I’m talking about. It’s the pink elephant on the campus. Every campus has one… it can take the form of large unsanctioned parties off campus, student groups hosting events in hopes of recruiting new students, or alternative “orientation programs” presented by jaded upperclass students. You won’t find it on the Welcome Week schedule, but if you ask any current student they can tell you when it happens. You may find something on the schedule for that day and time… it was probably put there because of the secret ingredient.

Mix it all together and place in an oven at 90 to 100 degrees for three to five days, or until ready.

My favorite part is putting it all in the oven. Mostly because I don’t have to do anything, but also because now it just leaves me with anticipation of the deliciousness that will result. I don’t know what’s happening inside the oven, all I know is that if I’ve done everything that I’m supposed to my casserole will come out exactly as planned. We go through great lengths to plan a week of events for new students on our campuses. Within all of this, is an inherent trust that our campus community will do their part to achieve the desired result. We arm new students with the ingredients to be successful; we engaged them with information and entertainment (edutainment… if you will); we give them access to successful upperclass students, faculty and alumni; and, then we hope for the best.

I can’t think of anything more rewarding and anxiety producing all at the same time. Hopefully we’ve set the table for an incredibly meaningful college experience. Now that I’ve stepped away from the table, full and ready for a nap, it’s time to make some notes and adjust the recipe as needed. The best part of it all is that we can rest assured that none of us will be bringing the exact same dish to the next divisional potluck.


23
Aug 09

Tomorrow

   "Fifteen hundred years ago everybody knew the Earth was the center of
the universe. Five hundred years ago, everybody knew the Earth was flat, and
fifteen minutes ago, you knew that humans were alone on this planet. Imagine
what you'll know tomorrow…" -Kay in Men in Black (1997).

    Imagine what I'll know tomorrow as I start my official
journey in Higher Education and Student Affairs at Baylor
University.  I am anxious and excited to go to class and begin my new
apprenticeship.  I can't image what I will know to tomorrow and in the
next two years.  I feel as if I am a freshman once again the night before
college begins.  I wonder what classes will be like and how this journey
will shape my future career. As a new member to this blog, I plan on writing
about "hot topics" that come up in class as well as issues pertaining
to my apprenticeship.  Also, I will comment on life as a graduate student
in this area.

    I decided to pursue this degree and eventually a career
in student affairs because I wanted to impact students' lives outside of the
classroom.  College is an extremely important time for many students and
experiences outside of the classroom are just as important as experiences
within the classroom.  Many students attending college don't realize that
some of the most important knowledge that they will gain won't come within the
four walls of a lecture hall but rather the four walls of a dorm room. 
Our job as current and future administrators is to make sure that this
knowledge does not fall on deaf ears.

    So, I can't help to think about the first year students
getting ready to start their undergraduate education.  What will they know
tomorrow… a week from now, a month from and even four years from now? Will
they learn from their mistakes? Their world of knowledge is going to explode
and they probably don't even know it yet.  Will they be willing to engage
in this atmosphere and truly experience everything college has to offer?
Honestly, I wish I could go back to my first year of college just to have that
experience again of feeling so small in a giant world but at the same time,
knowing that this journey will make this giant world a little bit smaller and a
little bit more manageable.  As administrators, it is important to
remember that the future is in these students' hands and that they have a lot to
learn in a very short amount of time.

Imagine what I'll know tomorrow but more importantly…what they will
know… tomorrow. 


23
May 09

FIRE Takes Aim at U of Delaware Again

In a new statement on their website,
dated March 21st, the Foundation for Individual Rights in Education
(FIRE), again takes The University of Delaware's Residence Life program
to task for their stated educational priority and co-curricular plans.

The Res Life Priority statement reads:

"Become an engaged and active citizen by understanding how your
thoughts, values, beliefs, and actions affect the people with whom you
live and recognize your responsibility to contribute to a sustainable society
at a local, national, and global level" (bold-word emphasis added by FIRE).

The author, Adam Kissel, Director of FIRE's Individual Rights Defense Program, goes on to state "It is evident
that ResLife cannot bear to rid itself of the mission of teaching
students that they need to recognize their responsibilities as ResLife defines them." Later, he questions the use of a book to promote discussions about sustainability and student awareness of related issues.

"Also, the plan on paper is shorter than last year, in many cases
leaving the specific activities and teachings unclear. A central
teaching resource for freshmen in ResLife's plan is the book It's Easy Being Green: A Handbook for Earth-Friendly Living.
The frequent use of the book in the freshman program makes clear that
ResLife still imagines itself to be in the business of education. [my emphasis added] Since
we do not know whether the readings from It's Easy Being Green are required, we don't know whether there will be any penalty, overt or covert, if a freshman chooses not to do the readingsor doesn't agree with the views therein." and ending with the rhetorical lament "In any case, where is the faculty oversight of this plainly educational agenda?" [again, my emphasis added.]

Kissel's
accomplishments, including a Harvard education, followed by a master's
degree from the University of Chicago's Committee on Social Thought,
are impressive. He is obviously skilled in rhetoric and social
criticism. But like anyone hoping to win a debate, he juxtaposes
selective information with rhetorical devices to imply an answer, and
throws in a little bit of condescension and bile to send anyone who
might disagree with him running for the exits.

I'm both disturbed and undecided about FIRE. On the one hand, they seem to have people who have worked with the ACLU and other organizations I respect. I even
find myself agreeing with some of their criticisms. But is an
organization that recently lamented that a cyber-bullying law might keep them from doing their job
really the best defender of freedom on American campuses? To me, it's
an open question, and a fair one, with no clear answer in sight.

But back to the rhetoric.

It's
not my place to speak for the University of Delaware, or even for my
own institution (Penn State), but as someone who believes he is working
for the betterment of my university and the profession, and who got
into this field to help students find their way through college and
into the real world, I feel I have a responsibility to engage in the
conversation.

First, bolding the part of the educational priority about sustainability only makes it seem ominous to dumb people. Cut
it out. I mean, really. If students aren't worried about doing their
required readings in their classes, they aren't likely to have a cow
about whether their RA, Resident Director, Director of Residence Life
or anyone else tells them they need to read a book and think about
their environmental footprint, how they can save resources, or whether
they ought to recycle. Even the oft-mentioned RA who told freshmen that
they had to attend a "Mandatory" meeting in an announcement to his
floor would probably tell any one of his residents privately that no
one is going to make you read the book, and that "Mandatory" isn't
really MANDATORY.  Some RAs
will always tell their residents that, no matter what their supervisor
says, because it's cooler to pass the buck than to come across as gung-ho
about something that "old people" want you to talk about. It's RA
apologetics in action, the RA-wanting-to-be-a-cool-kid equivalent of
saying "I'm just here for the room, dude. Come to my meeting and don't
make me look bad."

Second, Residence Life is in the Business of Education. Just because we provide tangible services (room and board plans, mediations,
room changes, emergency services and crisis response) doesn't mean we
can't delve into the theoretical, by encouraging exploration,
activities, and reflection on broader life issues such as making
friends, maintaining relationships, sharing space, and managing
conflict.  After all, when the classroom building closes and the
professors go home, the students spend the rest of their college lives
with us. We see how isolating it is for some students to leave the
comfort of their families and hometowns, and to connect with new
people. We work with the kids who get kicked to the edges of new social
networks in the halls, who feel invisible, who have never interacted
regularly with people who are demographically different from them,
or who have never experienced environments where it is safe to be
themselves. We help settle conflicts between students and take
practical actions like granting room changes, but we are not simply a
loose amalgamation of services, or a shelf with a specific product on
it. Classes prepare you for specific careers, but the rest of college is a
testing ground for life, where every person a student encounters is an
input variable, and every interaction part of a series of ongoing
social experiments. Co-curricular plans and programs should serve as
catalysts for reflection and refinement of values. Professionals may be
teachers, observers, or participants in the process, but learning
happens in the individual. Good curricula should
provoke thought and reflection, rather than prescribe agreed-upon ideology. It is always up to the student to decide what to do with the knowledge they gain.

I
think that most of us in this field understand that, and well, if you
don't understand it philosophically, understand it practically. You can tell people what to think about, but don't tell them what to think. It
is enough to know that students have been presented with information,
thought about it, and then made decisions they can live with. When it
comes to this co-curricular stuff, this is where we seem to be
struggling at times.  How specific should your outcomes be, in order to
be measurable? How general should they be, to support a broad array of
discussions, activities and reflections, and to allow for freedom of
speech, freedom of inquiry, and freedom of thought?

Third, what is the value of "faculty oversight," and who counts when you talk about "faculty?" For example, Kathleen Kerr and Jim Tweedy at UD
both have doctorates, and Kerr teaches classes for master's and
doctorate programs in Education, while Tweedy oversees the university's
RA Classes. It's right on their website, so FIRE should have noticed
when they lifted their pictures to use in a recent FIRE "documentary"
about UD's
program.  Does that count for anything? It really should, since we are
talking about the practice of education. It seems to me that having a
doctorate in the field, and teaching classes at a university would
qualify someone as a member of the "faculty." If it doesn't, does that
mean that a larger body of faculty should oversee every teaching
activity, and parse over everything a professor in the college of
business says or does, for example? Wouldn't that limit the exploration
of ideas, remove incentives for creative thinking, and effectively
create a cold and hostile environment in the classroom? I think it
would. But then again, I'm only an administrator. What do I know?


3
Mar 09

Got Game?

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A
t the Annual Conference on the First-Year Experience, I was excited to attend a session with Loriann Irving, of Kutztown University. Loriann has built a creative portfolio of exercises for use in her first-year seminar course that she changes up to appeal to the different learning styles of students in her first-year seminar. Thinking along the lines of Scene It or Cranium, games with a variety of tasks, you have many options for interactive learning in your next course.


Sharing Props: Seek a volunteer from the class and invite them to reach into a pre-assembled basket of "props" and select an item. Gather your props ahead of time, looking for random items that could have potential beyond their intended use. Examples could be a chip clip, kitchen sponge, nametag lanyard, pocket pencil protector, mousepad…you get the idea, whatever may be around your home or office. Ask the student volunteer to share uses for the selected item. Following the prop suggestions, discuss with students that different uses for the props allow us to see things through different lenses. Just as perception of material in a class can differ from student to student, we learn and visualize in contrasting methods. This is a great introduction to learning styles and useful for students early in the transition to college.

Can You Hear Me Now: For a lesson that appeals to auditory learners, identify 4-5 audio clips from inspirational speeches or movies and play them for the class. Loriann shared clips from a Martin Luther King speech, Mr. Holland's Opus, and The Pursuit of Happyness in her presentation.  Following each clip, ask students to individually identify who was speaking and how it could be motivational or inspirational for them in their quest for a college degree. As you ask students to share their responses, link to educational goals and aspirations and what students hope to achieve.

Visualize This: Any PowerPoint presentation is helpful for vision-based learners, but making it interactive is the challenge. Loriann uiltized basic Photoshop techniques to distort common images related to the first college year. Creating distorted filter overlays that are slowly peeled back to reveal an alarm clock, student planner, wall calendar, and student ID card can be fun ways to introduce time management and responsibility. 

Can't Touch This: Using Scrabble tiles or paper letter squares to create word scrambles is a tactile game for engaging students in group problem solving. Distribute letter tiles that create words related to the first-year of college. Examples would be "dreams', "calendar", "organize", "grade point", "homework". Invite groups to share the importance of their word when the letters are unscrambled.

Interactive learning in the first-year seminar keeps students engaged and builds community. Another fun Loriann Irving classroom idea can be found here

What's your game?





26
Jan 09

Gone FISHing!

We just completed the first of four half-day mini retreats for our peer leaders. These students will be facilitating our first-year seminar course in the fall and they spend this semester building team relationships and studying student development in preparation for their work. A favorite concept that we utilize is the FISH! Philosophy. We introduce the unit early and refer back to it throughout the year. FISH! includes four simple interconnected practices that are easy to remember and fun for activity transitions.

Be There is being emotionally present for others. It's the idea that respect and engagement improves communication and strengthens relationships. For our peer leaders, this means setting personal issues aside so that they may focus on issues and challenges facing their students whenever needed.

Play emphasizes that being creative and enthusiastic, whatever the job before you, can make work and tasks more enjoyable. Our first-year seminar focuses on college transition and exposure to campus resources. We encourage peer leaders to try new instructional methods and not be afraid to step outside the box or the classroom. Play-doh, crayons, and an occasional set of Guitar Hero all have potential for Play application.

Make Their Day is about finding simple ways to serve those around you in a way that is memorable and has meaning. It's about contributions and service to others, without expectation that it will be returned. Peer Leaders are encouraged to learn student names right away to help ease early transition. Many leaders bring class treats or host surprise field trips to the ice cream shop.

Choose Your Attitude is about taking responsibility for whatever your day or life brings to you. It's about how your demeanor and mood impacts others around you. Does your attitude help people around you? Grumpy moods contribute little to our program goals. We focus on accepting life's obstacles, then getting on with the day. This concept is particularly handy in our 8:00 a.m. class.

We borrow the FISH! video from the campus resource library and purchase supplemental materials when needed. FISH! is a simple, fun method for generating a service philosophy with new student leaders and is great practice for our staff as well.


10
Jan 09

Self-fulfilling prophecy? Excuses for failure

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You've heard
the joke about the college students who after an evening of partying missed a final exam, claiming a flat tire. 
The professor told them they could make up the final on the following day.  At the final, the professor placed them in separate rooms, handed each of them a test booklet and told them to begin. The first problem, worth 5 Points, was on the subject matter. The next problem was worth 95 Points. It asked: "Which tire?

A NY Times article highlighting ego protection and lowering of expectations suggests that some students protect their failures and lack of achievement through self-handicapping. Excuses ranging from "I didn't buy the textbook" to "I overslept" are just the tip of the iceberg as students engage in self-defeating behaviors that evade success. If allowed to continue unfettered, self-handicapping behaviors become workplace headaches, characterizing individuals as unreliable very early in their careers.

During the spring semester, I meet with first-year students who were not academically successful during their fall semester. Many of these students were early identified as not performing to potential, and were monitored for intervention opportunities. I wish I had a nickel for how many times I have heard "the professor hates me", "I don't understand the teaching assistant", or "I lost the syllabus". Instead, I develop a schedule of advising appointments with students who frequently rely on excuses versus making a genuine effort at academic achievement. The task becomes helping these students recognize how their actions or inactions define them. Utilizing a discussion on responsibility is a positive beginning to the semester.

What does it mean to be a responsible student?
  • If you are responsible, you are reliable. 
  • If you commit to enrolling in class, you will complete the required assignments. 
  • If you are responsible and you have an assignment, you will do it on time and to the best of your ability. 
  • If you are responsible, you will think about the consequences before doing something. You won’t do anything that will jeopardize yourself or your college career.
  • If you are responsible, you will be accountable for what you do, and you won’t make excuses or blame others for your mistakes. 

Ninety-nine percent of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.   ~~George Washington Carver












17
Nov 08

New in the Toolbox: Emotional Intelligence

My spare time this month has been used to prepare for and complete certification in the use of the Emotional Quotient inventory or EQ-i. Emotional-social intelligence is a cross-section of interrelated emotional and social competencies, skills, and facilitators that determine how effectively we understand and express ourselves, understand and relate with others, and cope with daily demands. Understanding and assessing EQ in business and leadership coaching is common and research indicates that that the tool is equally useful in the academic setting with an 85% predictor rate for college success. I look forward to building expertise with this assessment and employing it to assist the transition of my first-year students.

The EQ-i is assessed through an online survey resulting in measurements of five areas: interpersonal, intrapersonal, stress management, adaptability, and general mood. Fifteen subscales or facets provide dimension to these scale areas.

Ml_eqhead_2EQ-i will join the College Student Inventory and MAP-Works in the toolbox of assessments that I rely upon for identifying issues challenging students in those first few crucial weeks of college. The College Student Inventory provides me with timely and strategic information on my students prior to their enrollment. Most importantly, it allows me to identify those with high need for student service intervention. MAP-Works is offered to students in the third week of enrollment and is a new complement to our campus retention initiatives. It aggregates student perception upon arrival and integration to the institution. Both surveys are great mediums for creating relationships with new students.

What’s in your student retention toolbox?


15
Oct 08

Blog Action Day 2008: Poverty as seen in Student Affairs

As Erik Bates discussed in his prior post, there is an assumption in student affairs that we are above impoverished populations; that we only see the privileged students who are well on their way to success. Yet there is a back channel that defines many of the students we enroll. A story that frequently is unknown and can be the cause of academic distress and ultimately attrition of our students. How do we serve the students who are trying to do everything they can to make a better life for themselves? A life they may have never seen?

The following is excerpted with permission from the scholarship application of one of my first-year students:

Neither one of my parents went to college, nor did they graduate from high school. My mother had me 5 days after her 16th birthday. My dad is a laborer, so he never made much money. I have a brother 4 years younger than me, somehow we still had a childhood. Then the major problems started. My parents were both alcoholics and battled drug addiction with my dad ending up in jail. My brother and I both were taken from our parents and put into a foster home. Luckily we were allowed to to move in with our grandmother, but with no steady income, we were moved to another foster home. Then we were again sent to live with our parents. Somehow dad went to jail again and then we moved in with our other grandparents. When dad got out, he came to find my mom and us. Together, their addictions got worse and it broke off our relationships with nearly everyone. Mom left and dad stuggled to keep the up with rent at a house we got next to our grandparents. Dad got drunk just about everyday. I was forced to take care of my new one-year old sister. I remember missing a week of school to stay home and watch her since she was too sick to go to daycare and dad wouldn’t stay home. I still kept my grades up and took honor classes that year. I didn’t have one grade lower than a B. Mom came back to live with us and it was all good, until one night. Dad pushed mom and I jumped up and ran into the room to break up his actions. I was scared of him my whole life and now I stood up to him and was ready to take him on. I stopped dad from doing any more and I got my little sister. The cops were called and both of my parents were arrested that night. I made the decision to move back to our grandparents with my siblings.

First-generation students with high financial need are a staple of many college campuses. We in Student Affairs need new plans of action to serve students for whom there is no outward expectation or preparation for the investment in college. With tuition costs and student loan debt soaring, we must meet the needs of these students through academic support and engagement while inspiring them to complete a degree. We need to keep trying.

This post is part of Blog Action Day.

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