As an undergraduate freshman at Hollins University, I was introduced to a strange holiday (unique to the Hollins campus).  Every fall, just after the first frost, the chapel bells would begin to toll early in the morning…very, VERY early in the morning.  Tinker Day was upon us.  When you heard the bells, you were to spring from your bed and head to the cafeteria (remaining in your most comfortable jammies), where you would be treated to a breakfast of Krispie Kreme donuts.  After breakfast, all of us would run to our dorms where we would put on our wackiest outfits (purchased weeks before at a thrift store in anticipation) and then meet on the front quad.  The president (similarly garbed) would give a speech, announcing that classes were canceled and the entire student body would proceed to Tinker Mountain…which we then climbed.  At the top of the mountain, each class (freshman, sophomore, junior, and senior) would perform a skit and we ate fried chicken. 

It seems nonsensical…and it is.  But as an educator and advisor, I can see the pedagogical value in Tinker Day.  We were given a day off.  Without warning, without any reason–in essence, we were given a student "mental health day."  How often do you want to take mental health days as a professional?  We were given a collective break from our worries.  We were allowed to laugh and bond with the entire university (that includes faculty and staff).  I can't tell you the number of times I watched one student help another on the way up that mountain.  That kind of experience stays with you–you remember when someone goes out of their way to help you to reach a goal (in the same way that teachers and advisors help students reach the "goal" of their degree).  And when we reached the top of the mountain, we reached it with our classmates.  We shared in the journey and we shared in the rewards.

So I think about Tinker Day when I'm teaching my classes each semester.  When my students look particularly stressed, when their Facebook status messages are depressed, when they're loaded down with work for their other classes…I look at my own syllabus.  I ask myself if a given lesson plan can wait for a week (I usually build a bit of flexibility into my syllabi)…and then I cancel class.  Sometimes even an extra hour of time can make a difference to a student who is a little behind.  As teachers, we have the power to give our students the gift of a day off–my students really appreciate it.

Those of us who facilitate students activities know that a
lot goes into brainstorming, planning, advertising/executing, and evaluating our
programs. We can spend days, weeks and sometimes even months going through the
process. Though these more sophisticated programs are a blast to plan and
execute, simple programs that require very little planning can also be
favorites and successes.

 

One of the things our office does to supplement our
programming calendar is to coordinate monthly Random Days of Fun such as
International Talk Like a Pirate Day (just for fun), Bubble Wrap Appreciation
Day (a great stress reliever), and Licorice Day (accompanied with the history),
just to name a few. These activities occur in the college center just outside
our office. We table for two hours, handing out items and using the theme of
the day to interact with our students. The days go largely unpublicized and
tend to grab the students by surprise – making it random fun!

 

Last year was our first time implementing these Random Days
of Fun. One gained so much popularity it has become the kick off to this year’s
RDF series. September 19th will mark our 2nd annual
International Talk like a Pirate Day celebration. Therefore,
we gunna once again celebrate by spendin' a pair o’ hours handin' out temporary
tattoos, eye patches, chocolate coins 'n other scurvy pirate booty. Additionally,
we gunna take pictures 'o students wit' scurvy pirate apparel.

 

Days like these have been very successful due to the buy in
from our colleagues. Administrators like our Vice President and our Director of
Residence Life get in the spirit by going by their Pirate Names http://www.froggynet.com/cgi-bin/pirate.cgi
for the day.

I encourage others to consider adding Random Days of Fun to your programming
calendar. Get started with International Talk like a Pirate Day http://www.talklikeapirate.com/piratehome.html.
For more ideas, visit http://www.brownielocks.com/

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"What's a tweetup?"  These were the first words out of our associate director's mouth when I told him I wanted to plan a UNC campus tweetup to coincide with a personal branding/new media workshop I'm delivering in September.  A tweetup is an in-person meeting of twitter users, typically organized by geographic region.

This summer I've had the pleasure of connecting with a fairly diverse range of Twitter users from our campus — from students to faculty to staff to the dean of the Kenan Flagler Business School.  So, I had the idea to get these folks together in one room to talk about their Twitter experiences and meet each other face-to-face (okay, I probably won't be able to get the dean to come…).  Coupling the event with a presentation that includes how-to information about a few new media tools — including Twitter — just seemed to make good sense.

Then I had the idea to go beyond pitching the event only to those currently using Twitter.  I reached out to the Daily Tar Heel, our student-run newspaper, and asked if they would like to sign on as informal co-sponsors of the event and incorporate an educational slant by encouraging students to come and informally learn about Twitter and how it can be used professionally.  We won't be doing any presentations, just casual conversation about how the tool can be used.

We've slated the event for September 28, and we'll just have to hold out to see how well it goes.  I have no doubt that the dozen or so active campus program users of Twitter will come, and I also have no doubt that some number of the more-dedicated student user will come.  But, the big question is:  will the event attract the "simply curious" or the "been meaning to learn" crowd?

Have you done a campus tweetup at your institution?  If so, how did it go and what ideas or thoughts would you share with others contemplating hosting one?

Wayne State has announced some great news; they are introducing the WSU Marching Band!

"We are excited to announce…debuting this fall…the Wayne State University Warrior Band! This band will play at football games, basketball games, and other university special events.  A director is being hired and plans are getting set!  Many of you have expressed interest and attended information sessions about the band and we thank you. The WSU Warrior Band is open to all WSU students!"

With my sister being a member of marching band all four years of high school as well as many of my former residents being members of the marching band, I have always enjoyed the synchronization and the dedication it takes to be a member of such a huge team. Here are some reasons why:

Creative Way to Stay In Shape

In Drumline (2002), you saw a little bit of the hard work that the members of the band have to go through. I couldn't do it, but it would be an interesting way to lose weight. It must be great to have a whole bunch of people suffering with you.

Taking Pride in Something Bigger than Yourself

I was thinking about the quote that pretty much defined their goal. "ONE BAND, ONE SOUND!" This definitely helps people with skills later in life: working as a team, being selfless. All those things are vital to the success of the band.


Former resident and fellow band members

Building School Spirit

Students become more invested in not only themselves, but the school as a whole. Not to mention, students want to see and support their friends carrying the pigskin and carrying the tuba. It allows students to be even more invested! I took pride in knowing that the drum major was friend from high school.


Friends from high school in rival college bands

 

Did anyone else do band? Or were they involved in another tight group, i.e. choir, etc.?

Students and new staff members will frequently ask me about surveying their students.  They often seem very matter-of-fact and self assured that they’ve found an answer to one of their pressing programming  issues:  what to present on campus.

It makes sense at first glance.  Wondering what to program on campus?  Ask your students!  Brilliant.  And wrong.

Here’s the problem with surveying your students in order to plan your programs:  They don’t know what they don’t know.

The vast majority of the students on any campus are blissfully unaware of the universe of student activities programs that are available.  They don’t attend APCA and NACA conferences.  They don’t read Student Activities Journal, Programming  or Campus Activities magazines.  They don’t even read this blog.

They essentially have no idea of what’s available in the marketplace.  They don’t know what they don’t know.

Ask them what bands to book, they’ll tell you "My Morning Jacket" or "Fall Out Boy."  If you ask about comedy, they’ll tell you Chris Rock or Dane Cook.  Odds are, your campus can’t afford those acts.  Or at least not all of them.  So you haven’t gained much from your survey.

But more importantly,  my original premise:   They don’t know what they don’t know. 

Ask your students:  would you like to stick your hands in different colors of hot, molten wax?  Really?

Yet we’ve all seen students at conferences line up for hours, waiting to produce their very own "Wax Hands."

Ask your students:  would you like to see a ventriloquist?  Really?

Many students may not even know what the word means.  Yet we’ve all seen students rolling in laughter over Dan Horn, Jeff Dunham, or Taylor Mason.

I often liken entertainment surveys to asking children about dinner.  If you ask the average child what he or she wants for dinner, they’ll tell you what they know:  they want a Happy Meal.  And if that’s what you always give them, they never learn to appreciate more exotic food like broccoli or sushi.  Don’t we all know college students whose diet consists of burgers and chicken strips– because it’s the only food they learned to like?

Take your co-curricular duties to heart.  Remember that you serve an important teaching function on your campus.  Avoid a regular diet of "Happy Meals" for your students.  Book some unusual programs, events that aren’t even on the students’ radar.  Your students– and your campus– will be better for it.

Last week I did our Dance Floor Theory training for an Army BOSS conference because, just like schools, the Army has an extremely hard time engaging their single Soldiers. According to a 2005 Leisure Needs Survey, 80-95% of single Soldiers never participate in BOSS sponsored activities.

As usual, I set up the idea of building relationship with apathetic Soldiers through Blender events such The Free Hugs Campaign. Then I handed out Free Hug signs and encouraged the group to take the idea outside the session to the rest of the conference. And they continued the campaign all the way to lunch.

As we stood in line to get our food, an older lunch lady with an Eastern European accent pointed at one of the Free Hugs signs from behind the counter. “In my 25 years working here, I’ve never seen anything like this.” She smiled.

I responded, “Well, we’d love to give you a Free Hug, but you’re behind the counter.” She smiled again and spoke softly, “Oh no, I’m too busy to give hugs.” Then she shuffled off to the back room.

I turned to the Soldiers next to me and we all knew, without words, that she not only wanted the Free Hug, but needed it. So we waited by the back room door for our lunch lady to emerge. Two minutes later she opened the door to me and 3 Soldiers with our arms wide open and Free Hug signs. Her face expanded into a smile much larger than it was used to and she embraced us all.

As we let go, her eyes filled with tears and without words she smiled and shuffled back to work.

Sometimes they don’t want it.
Sometimes they want it.
And sometimes they need it.

We are in the midst of NEDAW and for both men and women, college is a vital time to educate them. Eating disorders are a silent epidemic on our campuses because no one wants to talk about it. This year’s key message is:

Be comfortable in your genes. Wear jeans that fit the TRUE you.

As an example of how to integrate it on campus, NU (Northeastern University) is hosting events all week in honor of NEDAW.

Each day is dedicated to a different cause, and each day is a different way for you to help!

MONDAY: Learn about disordered eating in the US, who is being affected, and Why those suffering from an eating disorder may not be getting the care they deserve.

TUESDAY: What Can You Do To Help? Come pick up information on the signs and symptoms of eating disorders and how to help a friend who may be struggling.

WEDNESDAY: “Be Comfortable in Your Genes!” – Donate your “skinny” jeans and other old clothes that no longer fit your body comfortably in the CSC. Encourage yourself to wear clothes that fit the REAL you! Donations will be made to Rosie’s Place.

THURSDAY: Declaration Day! Come to the CSC and sign our “No Weigh” contract, declare yourself
free from the constraints of a weight-obsessed world!

Check out the National Eating Disorders Association’s website for more info and other activities.

Ok, in my searching for event ideas – I came across another idea I thought was unique enough to post here. Montgomery County Community College and also The University of Southern Mississippi hosted an Old Prom Dress Drive to help local teens who can’t otherwise afford a nice dress.

Reporter Maggie Mays of USM said they collected around 375 dresses in total. They also recruited several beauty salons to donate their services to the girls on prom night.

 

Organizer for the USM event, Tyleen Caffrey, said:

All the dresses we have come from individuals who have kept their dresses for sentimental reasons. This gives them goodcause to give it to someone who needs it.

For more info on both contact:

Tyleen Caffrey – USM – 601-310-3881

Cindy Whitley – MCCC – cwhitley@mc3.edu

Pennsylvania College of Technology News & Information (I know it’s a mouth full :) is hosting a sexual responsibility week from Feb 11th to Feb 15th. Here is the flow for the themed week in case it’s something you’ve been thinking about doing on your campus. They also post all their upcoming events online as well.


Monday

Sex Jeopardy Game Show
8-10 p.m., ACC Auditorium
Test your sex IQ and win fabulous prizes.

 

Tuesday

Chocolate Photo-Pop Creations
11 a.m.-2 p.m., LEC Lobby
Do you still need a Valentine’s gift? If so, don’t miss the chance to stop by and get your picture put on a chocolate pop. It makes a great gift for that special someone.

Survival Stories
7:30 p.m., Penn’s Inn
Film, “Breaking the Silence,” and panel discussion about sexual assault.

 


Wednesday

Sexual Health Fair
10 a.m.-2 p.m., LEC Lobby
Information, demonstrations and giveaways!

 


Thursday

Self-Defense Demonstration with Dr. William B. Urosevich, associate professor of biology
7-8 p.m., Field House

Speed-Dating Game and Late Night Party
8-11 p.m., Susquehanna Room
Facts and fun … information, demonstrations, games, music, entertainment and refreshments!

In case you need to remind someone to do something nice for someone else, or if you are looking for a theme, there’s a week coming up dedicated to doing Random Acts of Kindness.
The official website  is filled with stories, ideas, and inspiration to get you started. Here are some of the many suggestions it gives for colleges:

  • Give another driver your parking spot.
  • Give an extra concert or ball game ticket to a stranger. (Hand out free movie tickets)
  • Help someone struggling with heavy bags.
  • Invite someone new to lunch. (hand out free lunch cards) 
  • Compliment a stranger about something he or she is wearing.
  • Smile at people you pass on your way to class.
  • Bring coffee, donuts, or chocolate kisses/hugs to campus workers who don’t usually get thanked.
  • Form a group to help the school staff with activities like clearing cafeteria lunch trays, picking up trash, or cleaning up classrooms for the evening custodian.
  • Write anonymous positive notes to one another, saying what makes the recipient special.
  • Hand out coffee and hot chocolate to passersby on a cold, wintry morning, or lemonade and water during warm weather.
  • Hold a campus-wide kindness story contest.
  • Put up blank banners in public areas and invite students and faculty to write their kindness stories for all to enjoy.
  • If you have a radio station, ask the radio staff to create Random Acts of Kindness programming, such as listeners calling in their stories of kindness, or the ANNOUNCER reading submitted stories or selected readings from kindness books.
  • Hold a campus kindness rally and invite speakers and musicians to give awards to kind students, professors and staff members.
  • Hold a teddy bear drive. Deliver the bears to police and firefighters to give to traumatized children.
  • Collect kindness stories and create a customized campus kindness book for distribution.
  • Post banners with kindness slogans.



Here are some for the staff:

  • Praise the work or attitude of a teacher.
  • Bring someone a cup of coffee, hot cocoa, or a soft drink.
  • At a faculty meeting, talk with teachers about acts of kindness you all have given or received.
  • Leave a kind note in the faculty lunchroom with suggestions like, “Take a deep breath and move peacefully through your day.” 
  • Post copies of inspirational poems or thoughts for all to enjoy.
  • Put a supportive note on teacher’s desk or in his/her mailbox.
  • Carry small wrapped candies in your pocket to give as “angel kisses” to someone who needs a lift.
  • Attach suggestions for acts of kindness to Hershey Kisses and Hugs. Each administrator, teacher, or staff member takes a candy and then performs the RAK suggested to benefit another administrator, teacher, or staff member.
  • Sponsor a kindness drawing or coloring campaign for your staff’s children.
  • Put plants in your facility. A study at Washington State University indicates that living indoor plants may increase productivity and reduce stress for employees.
  • Boost morale on campus by having your staff submit stories about kindness in the workplace. Start with a memo giving them information about the RAK movement and asking them to submit their stories. When the week is over, distribute the stories as a collection, post them on a Kindness Bulletin Board, or include one or more in each school newsletter. If you don’t have a newsletter, create a weekly or monthly Kindness Bulletin and keep it going throughout the year!
  • Create a “good news” bulletin board to fill with upbeat news about teachers (such as write-ups about the teachers’ accomplishments and ideas, or photos of their families or newborn babies).
  • Invite someone new to lunch.
  • Welcome and get to know new hires.
  • Tell a fellow teacher or a principal why you appreciate him or her.
  • Walk a colleague to the car or bus at nighttime for safety.
  • Leave a treat on the desk of a teacher with whom you normally don’t get along.
  • Write, draw, make, or buy something encouraging for a colleague who is experiencing difficulties.
  • Place a flower on the desk of each of your team members or fellow teachers.
  • Surprise a colleague with a soft drink, coffee, or bottled water.
  • Keep a Kindness Journal of kind acts you observe among your students. Read it aloud and discuss it with your students once a week. This will help raise students’ awareness of the impact of their daily actions, and it may encourage you as well.
  • Give a compliment.
  • Allow a colleague’s teenager to shadow you for a day and learn about your job
  • Write a letter commending a colleague who helped you, and address it to your principal.

There’s even a PDF guide to start a RAK (Random Acts of Kindness) Club on your campus to keep the idea going throughout the year.
Acts of kindness do a lot more than just make someone smile. From their website:

Kindness activities teach students a lifelong interpersonal skill and affirm students who may not be recognized in other ways.