Over the weekend, I met a former co-worker for coffee and lunch in the city where we used to work together. We unwittingly planned our afternoon reunion for the same weekend as the university’s homecoming celebration. After catching up over coffee, we decided to venture to campus to see a few colleagues who still work at the university.
Parking in front of the residence hall where I used to live as a hall director, I smiled to myself thinking of the years I spent on campus. It was an excellent first professional “home” – a small university that was both supportive and challenging. There were seemingly endless opportunities to get involved across campus. My supervisors were developmental and caring while also nudging me a bit to get a more rounded experience.
After walking across campus past the new union (I was there for its construction but never while it was in operation), I stood talking to former co-workers and watching the alumni mill through the tent. Some polkaed to the live music while others sat and talked to their friends from decades past. With almost no warning, I was swooped into hugs by a group of women who were some of my first residents in 2004. We chatted briefly, catching up and reminiscing about our time in the all-female residence hall. Throughout the rest of the afternoon, I was greeted by a few more former students – several with hugs – and all with smiles and brief conversation about where we’re living, what we’re doing now.
While driving home later, I realized a significant part of the university’s being a good first professional home was the students. Not just who they were – though I did work with some high-achieving, intelligent and talented students – but also based on their willingness and ability to let me be more than “the lady who lives on the first floor.” I’m glad that years later I’m still connected with many of them through Facebook, e-mails, text messages and the occasional get together. Those students early in my career shaped how I interact with students now.
What stands out to you about your professional “home”? How do those qualities continue to influence your work?




